MOVING ON-TIME FOR NEW BEGINNINGS

Wow, been a while since blogging about anything lately. I've been devoting a little time to my youtube life and I'm trying to build my fan base via social media. Twitter so far has not gotten me much views, so I'm going to look into google plus. I'm building circles as I type this and I'm trying to promote my post like that. I blog about real things affecting me and I try to be totally honest w/ myself and really think about how I'm feeling at the moment.

Anyway, I've finally been offered a job, and I'm very excited about that. Now I'm really thinking about saving up for about six months and trying to get my own place. I've looked a couple of new rental house developments built but the rent is quite high, as well as the one apartment complex that I looked at today. It seems that the nicer ones are quite pricey even if they aren't in necessarily safe parts of town. The cheaper ones tend to be in need of desperate repair. I may have to see how much money I can save w/ the job and then try to find a second job to make my ideal place come true. The real moment came with realizing that I am 25, I've been in college for seven years, I feel like my parents kind of micromanage everything or take over many things like I'm five years old! Most of my friends have gone on with their lives while I'm stuck living w/ my folks, I realize that the only way to get some real experience is via getting my own place. Think about it, I've never had a fulltime job, never had a steady date mate, I'm a virgin (though I don't make a big deal about it). I mean there are guys and girls 7 years or more younger than I do that I have the tools needed to survive on their own. I have to get my own place. I need to learn some self-reliance. I mean I can wash dishes, wash clothes, iron to some extent, but I need to make it out on my own. I need to start a new chapter in my life. It's that simple. I'm getting too old for this. Many of my friends are married off with children and even if they aren't, they are working and they've got income of their own.

I wouldn't call myself ungrateful but damn man, I need to do some things on my own. It's one thing to get help from somebody, I mean everybody wants help to some extent, but it's completely different to TAKE OVER the whole assignment or task at hand.  It's just been three long years since getting my bachelor's degree and I've finally landed a job and I feel that it's time to just move on. Get a fresh start. Get some real freedom and some real independence. I love my parents as most who had good parents do but enough is enough! I feel like I always have to check in or check out. It's as if I'm incapable of doing anything w/o anyone's opinion. Just time to move on. Not going away, but it's time to get a place of my own and really learn the skill of paying bills, budgeting, etc, etc, et..al.

Anyone else feel like this at times? Sound off!

RHOA changes made and soon to come

Greetings housewives fans. The southern belles are back on and we are two episodes into season five with the departure of one housewife and the addition of two new housewives. Sheree Whitfield does not return, however Kenya Moore and Porsha Williams-Stewart have joined the cast. Kenya is a former fashion model who holds the title of miss USA 1993. She's also an actress, author, and producer and Porsha  is the granddaughter of civil rights activist Hosea Williams.  Porsha willl  introduced in episode three which will air later tonight! There is also news that this will be Kim's final season. While she appears in the promos, you will notice that she's not in any of the new pictures [though it is said  that she was in the hospital when those photos were taken]. She will appear in the first few episodes and then she will exit the series much like Lisa did with season three. Word is that she had a falling out with production and as a result her storyline is diminished. Once this happens, Nene will be the only original housewife of Atlanta left on the show. Back to that statement I made about Nene. Think about it, DeShawn did not return after season 1, Lisa did seasons 1-2 and the first few episodes of season 3, and now Sheree did not return for the fifth season. This also means that the RHOA cast will be entirely chocolate. I just hope that Kim is not replaced with Marlo. We've got Kenya and Nene and that's all the drama that we need. What do you guys think of Kim's exit on the show? I personally wish she could have left w/ a little more dignity b/c it seems like she got hammered on the season four reunion. I wish her well, and I really hope now that she's got a husband that she will settle down.

Up and Coming Developments in Lake Charles

OAK CROSSING

Oak crossing is a retail park that currently under construction w/ the first phase just being completed. I emailed the company when the sign was placed on the tract of land that would eventually become the site of this development and ask what kind of businesses we could expect to see. The response I got was they were talking with several medical offices, restaurants, and retail stores. So far the park has four buildings which have been constructed, though the insides are not quite ready yet. The only thing open right now that I know of is the leasing office for the park. However, checking the Facebook page recently, I see that there is plans for expansion to include ten additional buildings. The development is located at the corner of Nelson Road and Ham Reid Road, across from a future charter academy. I hope to see some good mom and pop shops, I'd like to see a coffee and beinget shop open up in there. I digress, but this looks like a nice development. The buildings are actually set up sort of like living quarters minus much windows.

MORGANFIELD

Morganfield is a TND planned for the southeast part of the city. From what I know, Morganfield is going to be constructed along McNeese Street and Corbina Road once the extension of these two roads is completed. Once the extension is completed, McNeese and Corbina will intersect. The community will be approximately 2000 acres and from the data that I've found out, the first 350-500 acres will be mixed use w/ retail, apartments, live work units and the link, while the remaining acres will be residential. I'm dying to know what kind of architecture we can expect. McNeese Street is complete and the Corbina Road extension is under construction right now. The two streets will intersect at the new roundabout once both are completed.

The three pictures below give us a better view of what to expect in this TND

IMPERIAL POINTE

This medical complex will be built at Nelson Road and Imperial Pointe Boulevard. It's going to be in the same area that the hospital on Imperial Pointe Boulevard is. There will be two new hospitals, medical offices, a bank, a hotel, a cafe, two restaurants, town homes, shops, and retail. IP blvd will ultimately be extended to a town center which will include a nice water feature, leading to some assisted living housing. The company behind this develop is Derek Development based in Lafayette, LA.

http://www.louisianamedicalnews.com/imperial-pointe-merging-medical-retail-and-residential-cms-1898

http://tonycornner.com/pdf/imperialpointe.pdf

http://www.derekdevelopmentcorp.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Imperial-Pointe-Development.pdf

http://www.derekdevelopmentcorp.com/pdf/Lake-Charles-Imperial-Pointe-Development.pdf

http://derekdevelopmentcorp.com/pdf/Imperial-Pointe-Development-Site-Plan.pdf

http://derekdevelopmentcorp.com/pdf/Imperial-Pointe-Development-Brochure.pdf

North Lake Charles Getting Life Again

I never thought we would see it, but it looks like North Lake Charles may finally be getting some life back into it. I'm a follower of city planning and I try to keep up with that market and when I began looking at the revitalization plans of downtown Lake Charles, I came across a PDF drawing of the plans for the North Lake Charles Riverwalk and Riverfront Parkway. Later on, it was removed from the Lake Charles website, but Idid find it archived so I downloaded the PDF and saved on google docs (gotta love web 2.0). Currently that portion of Enterprise Blvd is under construction where they are trying to develop the parkway which will be extended to Fitzenreiter Road and then to Highway 171, providing an alternate evacuation route as well as a road for business. The road will include bike paths, parks, and drinking fountains. . There are also plans to replace some of the decaying homes with newer ones as well as open up the neighborhood adjacent to the Calcasieu River. Once all is said and done, city officials hope to see real estate and retail along the river front and new road. The plans look great, and years later, I imagine that it would be a great improvement to this city, plus it takes away some of the negative stigma that North Lake Charles currently has. What do lake area residents think about this plan?


https://docs.google.com/open?id=0Bz0t_caOq0NNb0d0MWpjYS00SHc

http://www.jfds.com/portPlanning06.htm

http://www.kplctv.com/story/5142319/north-lake-charles-a-diamond-in-the-rough

http://www.cityoflakecharles.com/egov/apps/document/center.egov?rand=1oldpage=5&oldfDD=7-0&oldaction=&oldid=1&oldpath=browse&oldfCS=&path=detail&id2=189

Stop Mixing Politics and Faith!

This morning, I was awoken out of a sleep so I decided to grab my phone and check out my twitter timeline. I noticed a tweet from an individual who stated that he tried but could not separate his political choice from his faith. Once I clicked on it, I noticed several retweets and a few responses, one in particular [from a woman] stuck out to me b/c the woman stated that this was one of those campaigns that we would have to pray about.

Me being the guy that I am, I decided to respond to him by saying that just because the political candidate that you vote for believes in something against your religion does not mean you are suddenly supporting the belief that they do. If we only voted for someone who supported our faith 100%, nobody would ever vote. That's why I really hate it when ministers, priests, and those who oversee the religious practices of a place of worship try to connect politics and religion. I can understand a christian not voting for an atheist, but to tell someone, "Read the Bible and see who lines up closest to the Bible and vote for that one" is basically telling them who to vote for. They are essentially saying vote for the Republican candidate, even if you are not republican. I voted for Obama this past campaign but I don't have a problem with ppl who voted for McCain, that's their choice. But don't try to make me feel guilty or make me feel like less of a Christian because I did not vote for McCain. I would also like the same respect and rights to vote for who I wish during this campaign.

Recently Obama stated that he supported gay marriage, and now many are saying that they are not sure that they can vote for him. Prior to that it was abortion that he was supporting and ppl did not like that. Now before I get any further let me say something: I do NOT support abortion, but I realize that if it were made illegal, ppl would just be performing them themselves. I say if you absolutely MUST have one, make sure it's a life or death situation. Don't use it as a contraception. I don't buy into the idea that it's "not a life" b/c IMO, once the fetus has a heartbeat and a sense of touch, it is a life! With that being said, I am 100% in support of birth control medications when used correctly (which is why I was offended at the accusation towards Sandra Fluke, that she just wanted to get paid to have sex).

Just because one votes for someone that supports abortion does not mean that suddenly that every individual is going to suddenly support abortion. Likewise with same-sex marriage, just b/c the president supports it does not mean that every state is going to jump on the bandwagon and support it. Obama never once stated that he would demand each state, legalize same sex marriage, so if that's what people are worried about, I say get a grip!

What do you think about Presidential votes? Do you base it on your religion?

POMS

Okay, you know about PMS (Premenstrual Syndrome) that women deal with? Well damn it, I'm dealing with something that I would like to call POMS:Pissed-Off Male Syndrome (or symptoms b/c sometimes there may be more than one sign). Basically, it's those moments when you don't want to talk to anyone, you snap at any given moment, even at your loved ones and you don't give a shit who is offended. You just mad as hell.  That's it in a nutshell. Right now It's the job hunt. I feel like It's three years down the road and I'm doing the same shit that I was doing then. I feel like I'm working a full time job w/ no pay. Professional Job hunting sucks, there is no pay, no rewards, just tiresome bullshit and frustrations when no one responds or when your application is rejected. It's like everyone in my circle is passing me up but I'm expected to cover up my resentment for the sake of being humble. It's not that I don't want anyone to be happy, but fuck man! What about me? It feels like I've busted my ass for seven  years (undergrad and grad school) and all I have to show for it is some student loans and credit debt. It's like my younger brother, cousins, and everyone else (it seems) have passed me up and they are working full time, and yet I cannot pay someone to hire me. Through all of this, would you believe that people still have the audacity to ask me if I want to get my doctorate or go back to school??? Oh also I'm dealing w/ anxiety attacks and intrusive thoughts. I feel like God has abandoned me in many moments and it's to the point that I'm contemplating a spiritual hiatus. Fellas, are you dealing with POMS? Alternative name, POMGD (Pissed-Off Male Gender Disorder).

POMS symptoms include but are not limited to:

1. Constant anger, regardless of the situation

2. Upset about 80%-95% of the time, and it seems that not even doing the things that you love can make you happy or bring you joy

3. You find yourself happier when you are thinking dark thoughts than you do thinking positively.

4. Nobody, not even your best friend can cheer you up.

5. You've reached a point that even prayer does not mean anything to you, in fact just the thought of it makes you want to throw up!

6. When you snap at others and you don't care if they are hurt (for the moment), though you might regret it later

7. You've relied on ranting on Facebook and twitter about the situation

8. You use sites such as Justrage.com to vent and say the shit that you cannot say on general social media networks.

9.You get the thought to throw things across the room regardless of who or what is in the way, even glass!

10.Nothing inspirational helps you, it just makes you angrier and more enraged!

11. You just want to be left alone.

RHONJ Hot Tub Disaster!

Whew! Tonight's episode was quite intense. The majority of this episode is devoted to Teresa's last attempt to reconcile with Caroline Manzo and it seems that Caroline just was not having it. She would not look at her, she barely said a word while Teresa is practically begging and repeating the same thing over and over. It began with Tre having a conversation with Kathy while Caroline was listening from inside. Tre then got up to make the attempt, which did not go so well. Kathy tried to come to the rescue and see where Caroline was coming from, but still tried to stick by her cousin so that she would not feel attacked. Jacqueline, pretty much tuned them out, she said she was done (read her tweets). Melissa sat back, while narrating that Caroline needs to just move on. It was said, you've been mad long enough move on! Joe Guidice admits to the fact that they were paid for those tabloids. The "1/16 Italian" comment was perhaps was perhaps inappropriate, but Teresa could have said and done much worse. She could have committed adultery with Caroline's husband (not gonna happen Im just making a point), she could have made a false rape claim, she could have done so much more. I mean, I understand Caroline's disappointment, but I don't think that comment in a cookbook is a reason to cut someone out of your life. I do find it funny that she had no problem with Teresa when Teresa was flipping tables and calling Danielle a prostitution whore and a stupid bitch, but when it's not cosigning w/ her (Caroline) the deal's off. Anyway, Bravo fans, what do you think? Should Caroline move on or is Teresa still in denial here?